INTERNET MARRIAGES ON RAISE IN USA's immigrant communities.....
A
rise in Skype weddings is allowing immigrants to legally gain American
citizenship by exchanging vows from opposite ends of the globe, which
was revealed today.
Moreover,
many fear that the proxy online marriages, Internet marriages which allow a couple to wed
in the absence of one or both spouses, will help facilitate marriage
fraud, as well as see an increase in the number of sex trafficking
victims.
In fact,
the growing practice has so far flown under the radar of immigration
authorities, who are yet to provide extra inspection to ensure video
chat marriages are not misused
Not all
U.S. states allow proxy marriages, however in Colorado, Texas, Montana,
Alabama, Missouri, and California, couples separated by distance are
permitted to marry via webcam. The process is illegal in all other
American states, unless one partner is in the military.
In
countries such as India, England, and Israel, proxy marriages via Skype
are legally-binding. And because the U.S. recognizes a legal overseas
wedding between an American and their foreign fiancé, many are saying 'I
do' via Skype and registering the wedding on foreign soil so that the
marriage is considered legal.
Punam
Chowdhury, an American citizen, married her Bangladesh-based fiance,
Tanvir Ahmmed, via Skype last month from a mosque in Jackson Heights,
Queens.
Now the
matter of fact remains that in order for the wedding to be recognized in
the U.S., their Indian marriage certificate simply states it 'took
place' in Bangladesh, where it was legally registered, instead of New
York, where the practice is illegal. Hypothetically, if Miss Chowdhury
was a Californian resident who wanted to live in California with her new
husband, the proxy marriage would have been able to be legally
registered in California.
George
Andrews, the operations manager for North Carolina company, Proxy
Marriage Now, helps to facilitate online global unions which is the
first step in attaining a visa or citizenship for a spouse and his
company performs approximately 500 video chat weddings per year, with
60per cent of those marriages not involving a military spouse. But as
this seemingly innocent convenience becomes more widespread, with a lack
of red-tape in many countries, it has raised concerns by officials, and
even those who conduct or arrange these ceremonies.
A. Uddin,
a community activist from Queens, said she stopped helping others
officiate proxy weddings after several deceitful foreigners had
blindsided lonely Americans to obtain a green card, rather than a
partnership and that all people using marriage to apply for American
citizenship are first interviewed by Homeland Security or State
Department officials, in case of fraud, or even human trafficking who
also mentioned that even though officials ask newlyweds the details of
their wedding during immigration interviews, they generally do not seek
specifics on whether it occurred via Skype, which if revealed, would
raise a 'red-flag.
Adam
Candeub, a professor at Michigan State University College of Law who has
studied proxy marriage, said that part of the reason for having the two
people come and appear before a priest or a judge is to make sure it is
a freely chosen thing and that there are some problems with willy-nilly
allowing anyone around the world to marry.
In fact
some cases involving proxy marriages have enabled vulnerable women to be
brought to the U.S., who then find themselves threatened into sex work
by traffickers.
Archi
Pyati, the deputy director of the Immigration Intervention Project at
the Sanctuary for Families, said he has helped many women from West
Africa who were married by proxy without their consent, or as children.
The technologically-advanced custom can be helpful for some couples, worried about leaving loved ones without benefits.
British-born
Sean Murtagh, 24, and Australian Natalie Mead, 30, said 'I do' using
Skype in 2011, after Volcanic ash in Iceland thwarted plans for their
London wedding and that Skype allowed the wedding to be broadcast to
family and friends in London where the marriage was registered.
American's
Samuel Kim and Helen Oh, both 27, also married via Skype in 2011, the
O.C. Journal Register reported and that after Mr Kim became ill with a
lung infection, he married his finance using a webcam from his
California hospital.
Skype
commented at the time while they would never wish any couple to be apart
for their own wedding, they are sure glad that Skype could play such a
big role in the wedding of Samiel Kim and Helen Oh from Southern
California, who couldn't be together on their wedding day.
'Unfortunately,
Samiel was in the hospital, but that did not deter Helen from her big
wedding day plans with 500 guests. The show must go on, and it did!
thanks to a Skype video call connecting Helen and her soon to be
husband, Samiel, while he was at the hospital.
Proxy marriages are not new....
Louis XVI
and Marie Antoinette were first married in her native Austria in his
absence, before she met him for the first time in France, and proxy
marriages via telephone and telegraph have also been documented.
However
with the growth in technology, immigrant communities are increasingly
using the process, where first or second generation U.S. citizens, such
as Miss Chowdhury, are able to marry a partner from their homelands.
The
matter of fact remains remains that it's not just U.S. citizens choosing
to tie the knot with their physically absent spouses using video chat
instead of an alter.
In fact,
many use webcam weddings to circumvent restrictive local laws, like
those in Israel and other countries, which generally recognize
mixed-religion marriages but refuse to perform them and that Israel, for
example, recognizes proxy marriages registered abroad between Israelis
who were not permitted to marry in Israel.
Whether
it's physical marriage or digital the purpose should be to have a life
long relationship and a family rather than just earning a citizenship.
In the changing day of technological advancement we have even made
purity of relationship as a show more than that a priority of once's
citizenship! This will not make the world happy rather bring more sorrow
and confusion for the generation to come.
Note:
The above mentioned statement is intended towards those who are not
using the technology with the right motive, rest all may enjoy and have a
great life!
(AW:Samrat Biswas)